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Tuesday
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August
Calling Hours
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Falvo Funeral Home (Webster, NY)
1295 Fairport Nine Mile Pt. Rd.
Webster, New York, United States
Tuesday
29
August
Funeral Service
4:00 pm - 4:45 pm
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Falvo Funeral Home (Webster, NY)
1295 Fairport Nine Mile Pt. Rd.
Webster, New York, United States
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Sunday, September 24, 2023
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My dearest friend... I cannot believe you are gone. I had saved important stories and events to share with you when I was to see you - for 5 nights! - in October. My heart aches knowing that we will not have that time together and that I will never hear your voice again. This friendship we shared for more than 20 years has meant the world to me. I already miss talking and laughing with you until both our voices grew hoarse, sharing seafood towers, family/yoga/work/life stories, cracking your all-time favorite bottle of Duckhorn Wine, sharing book recommendations that I knew you'd love and so very much more. I wished for it to last forever. A connection such as the one we shared is rare and worthy of being nurtured and I am thankful that we both remained committed to that. I will miss you forever.
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Lanny and Linda Schantz posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Linda and I met Steve and Pam at church.
Steve and Pam taught Sunday school with Linda we enjoy many good times with them.
Our most sincere condolences to Steve and the family. At this most difficult time.
We will miss Pam.
Blessings,
Lanny and Linda Schantz
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Carol Sullivan posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
We will remember Pam as a sweet woman, positive person, gentle yoga teacher, and a fun and generous hostess. We’ll miss seeing her frequent walks around the neighborhood and the kind smile whenever she greeted you. Steve, we are so very sad for your and our tremendous loss. Love, Carol and Paul
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Gar Grannell posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Pam, and now her family, will always be part of our Mohawk Global family. Since joining our company in 2015, Pam lit up every room she walked into. She greeted everyone with a warm and kind smile and had this unique ability to bring a calmness to the most chaotic days.
During the darkest days of Covid, Pam took it upon herself to teach a virtual yoga class during lunch hour to bring a sense of normalcy and peace to our people. Pam's kindness and caring nature has had a lasting impact on us all and we will honor her by being more like her every day.
Condolences to the entire family. Pam will forever live in our hearts.
With love,
Gar Grannell
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Mickey Jaksha posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Pam was a wonderful friend, more like a sister to me. I have so many precious memories of her from over forty years of our friendship. I remember our trip to Babcock State Park staying in a rustic cabin. We decided to hike a lengthy trail down to the New River. Pam wore inappropriate footwear and I had to locate a park ranger to give us a ride back up to the cabin! Nevertheless, we had a great time in West Virginia. You will be missed and always in my thoughts.
Mickey Jaksha
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Ginette uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
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Pam was one of my dearest friends and co-workers that I held close to my heart. Some friends you don't have to speak to every day but you pick up right where you left off. She was so loved by everyone at work and will leave a huge absence in our days and hearts.
I'm so grateful we had Sunday to meet and have lunch, as I wasn't feeling well but something in my heart told me to go and now I know if I didn't, my guilt would of haunted me.
I will take the lessons she taught me and always strive to be as compassionate, caring, and genuine as she was to me. My moto when frustrated will forever be, "be like Pam".
We will meet again my friend, I just know a soul like yours will come across my path again.
Love and prayers to her Family.
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Cathy Mulvey uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
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This picture was taken on one our fun weekend trips to NYC on this particular trip we took a pedicab through the streets of NYC and I remember looking at Pam and how hard she was laughing and enjoying herself a memory I will cherish forever.
I will miss her beautiful smile and treasure her friendship always.
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Karen and Ed Kusiak posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, August 28, 2023
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Ed and I are heartbroken at the news. Our best memories of Pam are her eagerness to lending a hand, her beautiful smile and her warm hugs. She was always a perfect hostess and a good friend. Her kindness extended to everyone and to her furbabies. Until we meet again.
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Monday, August 28, 2023
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We are deeply saddened to hear of Pam’s passing.
We have such fond memories of our times together in the FM Neighbors and Newcomers Club.
We send our deepest condolences to Steve and the family.
Sincerely,
Javier and Michelle Paz
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Carole Haas posted a condolence
Monday, August 28, 2023
Pam was a very warm and empathic person. I will never forget the day she and her informal yoga group came over to join us as we were about to scatter the ashes of our beloved cat in the woods behind our house. She later invited me to join the yoga group, capably and gently led by Pam. It is hard ti imagine the neighborhood without her presence.
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Monday, August 28, 2023
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Pam and her family lived a few houses down the street from us when they were still living in the Bay Area. At first, we would just say hi in passing and got closer when our sons (Sean and Zach) started hanging out together and became great friends. The boys will ride their bikes back and forth from our house to theirs and have dinners at each other’s houses. Pam and I will call each other to check up on them and to share recipes on dishes that the boys like. My oldest daughter Alexa also hung out with Marc. From then on, our families did a lot of things together, movie nights at my house, white elephant parties at their house to name a few. And since we are both stay at home moms that time, we would regularly go on 6am walks with our dogs Buddy and Maggie while sharing thoughts, dreams, our children. We attended a sewing class, and mostly did things the kids want to do. The best memory I have of Pam was when I first took my newly adopted dog Maggie for a walk. In the middle of our walk, she just plopped down and would not move an inch. No matter how hard I coaxed her to continue walking, she did not budge. I was so panicked because Maggie is a golden retriever, a big dog that I would not be able to carry home. The first person I called was Pam and in minutes, here she comes to save me from my predicament. She helped me put Maggie in her car and drove us home. We got a good laugh out of it. That is how I will remember her always. A friend who’s always there for me no matter what. She will drop everything to help out a friend. That’s the kind of person she’s always been, warm, caring, loving. I appreciated how she treated my kids as if they’re her own and stood as their 2nd Mom. I will miss her terribly and I am very sure she will be missed by everyone. Take my love with you Pam and rest in peace my sweet friend until we meet again.
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Kathie Youtz posted a condolence
Monday, August 28, 2023
Larry and I are so sad to hear of this horrific news. Pamela was and always will be a beautiful friend to all and , fabulous mother to her children and loving wife to Steve. Rest in peace dear Pamela . God bless you Steve and family. Love Larry and Kathryn Youtz….
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Monday, August 28, 2023
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With our deepest sympathy, Friends from NNL/ATIP
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Love, Greg, Barbra, Loren and Marshall purchased flowers
Monday, August 28, 2023
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Steve, Marc, Sean and Kristen, We are deeply sorry for your loss and you are all in our thoughts prayers and hearts.
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Love, Greg, Barbra, Loren and Marshall planted a tree in memory of Pamela Rubenstein
Monday, August 28, 2023
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Steve, Marc, Sean and Kristen, We are deeply sorry for your loss and you are all in our thoughts prayers and hearts.
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Patrick Heaphy II planted a tree in memory of Pamela Rubenstein
Monday, August 28, 2023
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In loving memory of Pamela M. Rubenstein and her family.
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Nann, Jim, Ben and Elizabeth Poole purchased flowers
Monday, August 28, 2023
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Nann, Jim, Ben and Elizabeth Poole planted a tree in memory of Pamela Rubenstein
Monday, August 28, 2023
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Michele and Peter Rase purchased flowers
Sunday, August 27, 2023
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Our deepest sympathy for your loss.
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Michele and Peter Rase planted a tree in memory of Pamela Rubenstein
Sunday, August 27, 2023
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Our deepest sympathy for your loss.
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The family of Pamela M. Rubenstein uploaded a photo
Saturday, August 26, 2023
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1395 North Goodman St
Rochester, NY 14609
Phone: 585-872-1010
Fax: 585-467-2457
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1295 Fairport Nine Mile Point Rd. Webster, NY 14580
Phone: 585-872-1010
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